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Flip Side Philosophy - The Key To Solving All Your Problems
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Many years ago I had a boss who constantly used the term "...but on the flip side." It became a phrase that I hated to hear and avoided saying...until I came to realize the amazing wisdom and power of it.
Got problems? Make a list of them. Is it a long one? Great! (You'll see why I said that in just a minute.)
Now, the secret, the key, to solving every one of those problems is to realize that there is a flip side to each situation, and it already exists, right now. Today.
You cannot have the negative without having the positive, too. For example, if I have a pocketfull of coins, I can't say, "Look, all these coins are tails." Because each coin has its other side. You can't even say, "Look, all heads or all tails." Because every single coin is BOTH, at the same time.
So your big long list of problems is actually a big long list of blessings, of good things. Beside each thing, write its "flip side," and then realize that those things, the knowledge of those things, the desire for those things, the capacity/ability for those things, is in your life today...as a very real part of the negative things you are experiencing.
Stop suffering, complaining and resisting right now. Apply a little flip side philosophy to your life. Think about and take steps toward those positives, and watch the changes that surely will happen.
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